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  • March 26, 2019 4 min read 10 Comments

     

    No matter what or how you carry, there are some simple hacks that can make it a much more pleasant experience!  These minor adjustments will help you become a Concealed Carry Guru in no time flat.

     

    #1 Bigger Isn't Always Better

    Choosing the right firearm can be a challenge for anyone!  There's almost always a discrepancy between what feels comfortable to shoot and what works well for concealment.  Women have an extra difficult time with this because we're not all long, straight lines!  Petite curvy women and large angular chunks of metal don't exactly meld into one another, y'all!  The good news is there are a ton of smaller firearms to choose from, and if you get the chance to try them out, you'll be able to find one that works well for concealment and for shooting.  It may not be the most fun you've ever had at the range, but there will definitely be a Wedding Dress Moment when you know you've found THE ONE.  It will fit your hands well, and the recoil will feel manageable.  You'll feel comfortable with it and be accurate and consistent.  Maybe not fun....but very functional.

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    My favorite gun to shoot (Glock 17 Gen 1) compared to my favorite gun to carry (S&W Bodyguard .380 w/ integrated laser)

     

    #2 "Fitted" and "Solid" Are What You Need

    Typically women are looking for the "soft and comfortable" in our attire.  There's a reason that leggings are so popular! *grin*  But when it comes to your concealed carry gear, you need to take a different approach.  The best thing I can use for a comparison is a watch with a really oversized face.  If you wear it loose or on some kind of soft, stretchy band....you're gonna knock yourself out with it!!  The same thing holds true for your concealed carry foundation.  Whether it's a belt or a bra or just the waistband of your clothing, it needs to be supportive enough to hold the weight of the gun in place.  The more it moves, the more uncomfortable (and potentially unsafe) it will be.  Back to the watch comparison...when you first get a watch, you really notice it!  It might even be a bit distracting or uncomfortable.  But when you wear it nicely FITTED with a SOLID band, you eventually don't even notice it anymore.  *BINGO*

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    Carrying your firearm in a holster that fits like this watch is a recipe for disaster and frustration.

     

    #3 Curves Are Your Friend 

    So earlier when I told you that petite curvy women and large angular chunks of metal don't mix well, I don't mean that we should all be wishing for a physique like a marble column!  The truth of it is that curves can actually work in our favor to create amazing concealment options.  We just have to learn to work WITH them rather than trying to carry in the exact same manner as our male (column-shaped) counterparts.  Think about the contours of your body.  Any areas that dip in are ideal places to hide a firearm.

     sweet spot for concealed carry

    My very favorite place to carry a gun is in the sweet spot.  This area extends from just below the bust line down to the hip crease on the front surface of the body.  It keeps your firearm hidden, but it also makes it very easy to access and protect.  Because of the way your shirt falls from the largest part of the bust, anything you carry here will be a little less noticeable than in other areas of your body. 

     

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    Carrying on the hip is tough because it wrecks the symmetry of a curvy shape, but carrying in the Sweet Spot makes it much easier to conceal 

    #4 Stop Touching It!

    You only draw attention to your gun when you're constantly adjusting it or touching it to be sure it's still in place.  So, the first thing you need to do is carry in a way that doesn't make you feel like it might be out of place!  (refer to #2 above)  The next part of this rule is to carry enough in private (like around your home) that you become confident about your carry method.  Once you get those things accomplished, it's simply a matter of habit.  Just remember that other people's attention naturally goes where your attention goes.  If you doubt this, just look over a person's shoulder multiple times when you're in a conversation with them.  After a few of your own glances, the person will ALMOST ALWAYS look over their own shoulder to see what the heck you're looking at! LOL  

     

    #5 People Are Generally Oblivious

    Some people are specifically trained to pay attention to others.  Whether it's a police officer (they have to pay attention for their own safety!), or an individual, there will be people who can tell you're carrying a gun.  Generally though, these people are of the friendly variety  (have you ever noticed that once you decide you want to purchase a Ford Explorer, you see them everywhere???  Gun peeps notice other gun peeps).  In polite society we're trained to specifically NOT notice odd things about other people's bodies.  We overlook them on purpose and it becomes second nature.  In the random situation where someone has the audacity to ask you about a misplaced lump or bump, just act very offended and walk away! HA!

     did you notice my gun?

     So....DID you notice??  And for bonus points, did you notice it in the main pic at the top of this article???  If you did, you're certainly in the minority and you get a gold star for being so observant!  If you're new to concealed carry, the best advice I can give you is to take a deep breath, relax a bit, and learn everything you can.  We post a lot about concealed carry for women here on our blog!  One of my favorite recent articles was all about concealed carry in some of the most popular spring outfits on Pinterest.  I think you'll love it too!  We'd love to hear your favorite concealed carry hacks.  Let's pool our resources and be a strong and helpful Tribe of Women!

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    10 Responses

    Tatia La Pier
    Tatia La Pier

    January 16, 2025

    Thank you so much for your light and delightful humor and approach to comfort and concealment, it has been a breath of fresh air. I feel confident with time and the right fit that I will get it right ☺️

    Guinevere
    Guinevere

    January 16, 2025

    Tips four and five were written for me! I keep thinking everyone will immediately notice the (seemingly) huge bulge I have under my shirt. Especially when it’s windy, and my shirt gets blown against me. I also worry about reaching up high, or moving fast and exposing the grip. More carrying at home to get used to it, I guess. :)

    John Mitchell
    John Mitchell

    January 16, 2025

    Lisa

    Hope you and Flashbang Julie are doing well! Things are still cooking very well for pistolpacknmama.com. Take a look at our new site if you get a chance. Miss you guys! All the Best!

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    Eve Mitchell
    Eve Mitchell

    January 16, 2025

    I loved what you said about being confident to carry your gun. I have been wanting to get my concealed carry permit for almost a year now. There have been some scary incidents, and I want to ensure that I’m protected in situations like those. https://www.osseogunclub.com/topic/class-permit

    Lorelei
    Lorelei

    January 16, 2025

    I work for a company that requires I wear dress pants or knit pants and golf shirts. I travel so I want my gun on me. I carry a SIg p365 sas. Any suggestions on a holster that doesn’t show and works with pants like yoga pants with no belt or waist and not a sports bra. I can’t wear them due to a back injury. I would like to wear something that doesn’t pull the pants down as I walk.

    Lisa
    Lisa

    January 16, 2025

    Hi
    What do y’all recommend to use with dresses? That’s my normal attire 8 months out of the year due to the heat .
    Thanks

    Kristy
    Kristy

    January 16, 2025

    Hi, I’m new to concealed carry and just found your blog. It’s great to learn about women specific issues from women with experience. I just took a class and the instructor said that there’s a risk you might shoot yourself in the sweet spot so to speak or in the leg when you carry appendix (for sure all holding positions have drawbacks). I think this would be the best place to carry, but do you have any tips on how to avoid accidents?

    Beth Acampora
    Beth Acampora

    January 16, 2025

    Thank you thank you. I have struggled with the best way to carry my Smith and Wesson. I currently have a purse with holster pocket but with the nice weather approaching I want to try my holster again and your article hit home for me. Nice to have a site for women that struggle with trying to conceal carry.

    Beth Acampora
    Beth Acampora

    January 16, 2025

    Thank you thank you. I have struggled with the best way to carry my Smith and Wesson. I currently have a purse with holster pocket but with the nice weather approaching I want to try my holster again and your article hit home for me. Nice to have a site for women that struggle with trying to conceal carry.

    Pamela Pylant Williams
    Pamela Pylant Williams

    November 13, 2024

    Thank you. I was perusing Pinterest for holsters; your information was educational (with a bit of humor)! Peace

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